Why feeling confident and comfortable in your own skin on your wedding day is more important than meeting anyone else's expectations

Your wedding day is one of the most special moments of your life, a day that’s all about celebrating love and commitment. But it’s also a day when many brides feel a lot of pressure, not just to look beautiful, but to meet everyone else’s expectations of what that “beauty” should be. With so many opinions and ideas swirling around, it’s easy to get caught up in worrying about how others will think you look. But here’s the truth: how you feel on your wedding day is far more important than how others think you look.

As a bridal hair and makeup artist, I work with so many brides who have their own unique style and vision of what they want on their wedding day. The key to looking and feeling your best is staying true to yourself. Whether that means going for a soft, natural look or embracing full-on glam, what matters most is that you feel comfortable, confident, and authentically you.

Why how you FEEL is more important

When you feel good, it shows! If you feel uncomfortable or self-conscious about your makeup or hairstyle, it can affect your mood and your overall experience of the day. Your wedding day is your moment, and you deserve to enjoy every second of it without worrying about how others might perceive you.

Imagine walking down the aisle feeling radiant and at ease, totally confident in your look. That sense of confidence will shine through in every photograph, every smile, and every interaction. It’s that glow of happiness and confidence that makes a bride truly beautiful, more so than any specific hairstyle or makeup trend.

Comfort is key

Every bride has a different comfort level when it comes to makeup and hair. Some brides feel most like themselves with very little makeup, preferring a fresh, natural look. Others love the idea of a more glamorous style with bold eyes or a striking lip colour. The important thing is not to stray too far from what feels comfortable for you. After all, you’ll be wearing this look all day, from the ceremony to the very last dance. On your wedding day, you want to feel beautiful, yes, but also comfortable. If you’re not used to wearing much makeup, there’s no need to feel pressured to wear heavy, dramatic makeup just because others expect it. A bridal look should be an enhanced version of you, not someone else’s idea of beauty. Similarly, with hair, whether you envision relaxed waves or a sleek updo, make sure it reflects your personal style and feels natural to you.

Creating a look that’s true to you

One of the most rewarding parts of being a bridal hair and makeup artist is helping brides find their perfect look. My goal is always to enhance your natural beauty and create a style that complements not only your features but also your personality. Whether you’re drawn to a boho vibe with effortless waves or a classic, sophisticated updo, the most important thing is that you feel like the best version of yourself. Creating your bridal look is not just about applying makeup or styling hair, it’s about creating a look that empowers you to step into your day with confidence and joy.

Choosing between natural and glam

There’s often a misconception that you need to go full glam for your wedding day to make an impact. While there’s nothing wrong with a dramatic look if that’s what makes you feel fabulous, there’s also no rule that says a bride must be ultra-glam. A natural bridal makeup look can be just as stunning, and it might be exactly what makes you feel like yourself.

Natural makeup doesn’t mean boring; it means enhancing your features in a way that feels effortless and authentic. Think glowing skin, softly defined eyes, and a touch of blush to give you that radiant, fresh, and timeless look. This can be a great option for brides who don’t typically wear a lot of makeup or who want to look polished but not overly done.

Ultimately, whether you choose natural or glam, the focus should be on creating a look that makes you feel amazing. When you’re comfortable in your own skin, you’ll be able to fully enjoy every moment of your day without worrying about how you look in photos or how others might be perceiving you.

The Importance of a bridal hair and makeup preview

One of the best ways to ensure you feel your best on your wedding day is by booking a hair and makeup preview (or trial). This gives us a chance to experiment with different looks and find the one that makes you feel confident and beautiful. It’s also an opportunity for you to see how the makeup and hair will last throughout the day, giving you peace of mind knowing you’ll look flawless from start to finish. During your bridal preview we’ll talk about your preferences, your dress, and the overall vibe of your wedding. Whether you’re aiming for an effortless, boho hairstyle or a more structured updo, we’ll work together to perfect the look. It’s also a chance for you to provide feedback so that by the time your big day arrives, everything feels just right.

Trust your artist, trust yourself

One of the most important pieces of advice I give to brides is to trust both your artist and your own instincts. As a professional, I have years of experience creating looks for brides, and I’m here to guide you. But equally, I want you to feel in control of the process. If something doesn’t feel right to you during the trial or on the day, don’t be afraid to speak up! The goal is to make sure you’re completely happy with your look. Trust that you know what makes you feel good. Whether that’s a minimal makeup look or something more glam, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident in your own skin. When you do, that inner glow will shine through, and you’ll look absolutely radiant no matter what style you choose.

Your wedding, your style

At the end of the day, your wedding is about you. It’s your day to shine, and how you feel is what matters most. So, embrace your own style, prioritise your comfort, and trust that when you feel good, you’ll look good too. No matter what style of makeup you choose, the most important thing is that you feel amazing and true to yourself. Your hair and makeup should enhance your natural beauty, not change who you are. When you walk down the aisle, you should feel confident, beautiful, and ready to embrace every moment of your special day.

Ready to tick bridal hair and makeup off your list today? Get in touch to secure your wedding date and start planning your dream look.

alice@lucenthairandmakeup.co.uk | +44 (0)7500848183 | @lucenthairandmakeup